For as long as I remember I have suffered from major anxiety issues and still do. Many people thought I had left high school at a very young age because I didn’t like it but the truth was I left because I was suffering from panic attacks, depression and extreme social anxiety at the time. None of which my parents or close friends knew about. Since then I have had few depressive/ anxiety episodes where they have grown into full blown panic attacks to a sense of overwhelming fear. It has taken me a very long time but recent years have shown that I have somehow learnt to manage my anxiety to a more controllable state. Here are 5 things I have learnt that has helped me deal with anxiety.
- Sleep. If you can try and get whatever the recommended dose is (8 hours) every night. Try and establish a sleeping routine, one that will work for you. I can not recommend this enough
- Take regular breaks at work or study.
- Surround yourself with people who are loving, accepting and are positive influences in your life. For a certain period in my life, I went out with a guy who made it obvious that I was flawed and to be loveable/acceptable to him and his social circle I need to change physically but also personality. When that relationship ended, and I began to rebuild my life again, I found it easier to deal with my anxiety because the friends that I already had continued to be supportive even though I didn’t realise it when I was in said relationship. Please note mentioned ex was not a horrible guy and was a major instigator in forcing me to get professional help. It was just easier to finally deal with things when the relationship had finally finished.
- Establish regular exercise into your life. I wish I had switched onto this earlier. Exercise for your own wellbeing and not to compete with others…..unless you’re that way inclined.
- Delay worrying. When you find yourself worrying about something – tell yourself that you worry about it later. Quite often the things we worry about the most never actually occur.
Next week I will try write 5 more ways to deal with anxiety. How do you cope with anxiety and stress?
